country girl

How u know its right

I’ve always believed relationships r supposed to b a forever kinda thing not a for a minute kinda thing. In my last relationship I used to ask my boyfriend/finance “will u marry me tomorrow?” (Simple yes or no question. Even said money for wedding magically appeared) He always said “no” so then id ask “how about the day after tomorrow….? Next week?… in a month?” The answer always remained “no”. I didn’t ask him because I really wanted to get married the next day. I have major ocd and want my wedding to be amazing so an unplanned one simply wouldn’t do. I asked him because I feel that with in the first six months of being with someone (if not sooner) u know if it is right or not. You know if you want to and are willing to spend the rest of your life with that person. I knew I was ready but he wasn’t and still isn’t and probably never will be. So I moved on with my life and started dating a new guy I asked him last night “would u marry me tomorrow? (If the money for the wedding n all manically appeared)” and to my surprise he said “yes”. This isn’t a for a minute to pass time kind of relationship….. I knew right as he was saying yes that I am right where I need to be, doing what I need to be doing. I feel it in my heart again. Everything happens for a reason. I will always ask “will u marry me tomorrow?” The answer tells so many truths!